.But what Astrid does not understand however is an honest truth that both Ortega as well as O'Hara-- who possesses two boys-- can attest to: The simple fact that your partnership along with your moms and dads improvements as well as advances as you both grow older, as well as ideally right. "Your world centers around [your youngsters] when they are actually children [and also] it is actually a great deal job however wonderful," O'Hara claims. "Eventually, you actually overlook that, due to the fact that after that you can't obtain them to do just about anything you prefer them to do, because they start cultivating their own minds, their own point of views." And also inevitably, you find yourself in the location O'Hara, whose sons remain in their 20s as well as 30s, finds herself right now, capable to learn from her youngsters. "They are actually only such amazing younger men," she points out. "I'm not their colleague, but I like having conversations along with them and learning more about just how they think of life.".